This rollercoaster ride we are on

If I was going to draw a line graph representing my growth and non growth periods in my life, I would like to think that it would start in the bottom corner and head straight across to the top corner. Realistically, my life is a little different to that, it’s more like one of those crazy rollercoaster rides that takes you up, down, in, out and twists you in strange ways.  

On my 'life' rollercoaster I love the feeling I get when it’s going up. The “up” time is when I’m doing everything possible to achieve a goal, from achieving my goal right down to turning down a piece of fruit and nut chocolate, my favourite. When it starts heading in the downward direction suddenly all my decisions start to change, I find myself going back for seconds, thirds and more of that tasty fruit and nut.  

When I think about this rollercoaster analogy I realise that I needed to find ways that helped me recognise my tipping point, the time when I’m starting to head in a downward direction. For example; I know that if I’m suddenly starting to drink coke more than once a week, this is a sign I’m not in my good growth place. Once I recognise the signs, even if they seem insignificant, I can spend time reassessing my goals and refocus myself back on track.   

No one is able to continually grow in every moment of their life, that’s not realistic. The downtime after a big growth period is important, but by having awareness of the signs, we are able to turn ourselves around before we drop too low.  

When you are in a growth period, become aware of the bad habits that you have dropped. Once you reach that particular growth peak and start to notice those bad habits creep back in, this is your tipping point.  This is when you may want to sit down and spend some time refocusing.  

Over time you become better and better at recognising when you are heading on a downward period.  Through recognition and refocus, you will learn more about what you need to do to be the best possible version of yourself. This way your rollercoaster will have a lot more ups than downs.  


What is inspiration? 

I was a bit of a failure at high school. Seriously, I only went to school to eat my lunch. There are many areas that I could point my finger at to justify why I was so unsuccessful, but there’s one reason that really stands out in my mind, Michael Jordon. Yep that’s right, Michael Jordon!  

In my fifth form year while I was meant to be going to school to study History, English and how that whole Pi thing works, I found innovative ways to bunk school and watch the greatest basketball player of all time win some of the most exciting NBA finals ever.  

Looking back on that time now, the thing I find most interesting is - I never played basketball, I didn’t even shoot hoops with the boys! Here I was being consumed by this special superstar, but I was never inspired to actually play basketball. 

What is inspiration? The dictionary says; ‘The process of being mentally stimulated to do or feel something. Michael Jordon definitely made me ‘feel’ something but he didn’t have the ability to make me ‘do’ something. That’s not to say that sporting superstars don’t motivate people to try their sports, I’m sure golf clubs have loved what Tiger Woods has done for their bottom line. But I believe the best inspiration comes when people who we connect with in our day to day lives suddenly grow in ways that seem amazing to us. It’s when your unfit workmate works hard and completes a Half Marathon, or when an overweight friend suddenly loses a lot of weight. When the people around us achieve big things - we think we can to. That’s inspiration! 

So what does it take to be an inspiration? It’s about doing the hard things that most others don’t do. It’s about deciding to say no when others say yes and yes when they say no. It’s about sometimes doing the hard thing, no matter how many excuses you can create for yourself. When you do these things you’ll start to realise that you are becoming an inspiration within your world. This will be shown by people around you asking questions on how you do it. 

My friend Dee, a 60+ year old female Marathon runner, has been ten times more of an inspiration in my life than Michael Jordon could ever be. That’s inspiration. Go on, give it a try!


The answer I couldn't give

A few years ago I won a fitness industry award. As part of my glory, I was asked to do an interview with TV3. You know the type of interview, 'six tips on how to lose weight for summer' (Oh the summer dream). As we were preparing for the interview, I started chatting with the interviewer. She asked me one of those questions fitness instructors dread; "What's the best exercise for losing weight?" I could tell she was slightly disappointed with my answer, (reinforced by the fact that she asked me the same question two more times within the next forty minutes). The answer I gave her was this: "The best exercise for losing weight is the exercise you love doing". She obviously wanted me to be more specific, so she asked me about running. I questioned if she enjoyed running, to which she replied 'not really, but I heard that it's the best way to drop weight'. She had a good point here. The right type of running is a great way of losing weight, but if she didn't like running, I doubt that she would do it. 

Is there one exercise that is better than another when it comes to losing weight? Of course there is, but exercise is more about behavior than specific exercises. If you hate running, it takes a lot of motivation to get out there and run. If you can find a movement that you love, there is a much better chance that you will include it in your life.  

When you love a movement you don't want to read a magazine while you’re working out, you want to extend your physical limits and experience the highs within your body that comes with this.

This is when you get physical change! A shift in thought is needed - instead of trying to find an exercise or movement to achieve a physical result, try to find a one you enjoy, and the physical results will follow. 

If you are unsure of an exercise you love, spend a couple months just trying different physical activities. Write down a list of activities that you think you may enjoy based on what you know about yourself, and then commit to 'just giving them a try'. At the end of this period you'll find one exercise that you want to keep doing, because you love it.